You are one step closer to a brand new you
and having an EXTRAORDINARY relationship
Easily IMPROVE Your Life & RELATIONSHIP so that
you will have greater SATISFACTION, SAFETY, & SECURITY as well as more JOY
Welcome to Life & Relationship Coaching

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You have probably found this web page in a search to find ways to go from a good relationship to an

extraordinary relationship or to find solutions to end the struggles, pain. and discontent in your


Maybe you are: 

  • Satisfied in a good relationship but would like to have a great relationship
  • Maybe you are starting to feel a little bored and would like more spark in your life and reltionship

Or you are struggleing by:

  • Constantly arguing and bickering
  • Feel you can't agree on anything.
  • Feel critized and blamed and can't do anything right.
  • Being avoided and not able to communicate calmly and effectively
  • Wondering if you will end up divorced?


I have heard these and many more from the clients I have seen over the years.

Also on a personal note, I have had 2 marriages and one divorce with 12 years between the divorce and meeting my second husband (now with over 27 very good years) so I know what it is like. In other words 'been there, done that". I know that you can have a radically extraordinary relatioship if you are willing to make the effort. You can
go from pain to pleasure. I have.


You’re in the right place if you  are dreaming of having:

  • A relationship that brings you joy instead of conflict.
  • Communication and understanding that leads to more closeness and intimacy.
  • An equal partnership where you can discuss ideas and create dreams together. 
  • A partner who really listens and understands you, as you do them.


You are not alone. I have helped 1000's of individuals and couples create a secure loving relationship and a happy harmonious life with the simple strategies that will be revealed. 

If you want to get started right away sign up on the right for my Free Gift: 





Learn how to: 

  • Go from good to great to extraordinary
  • Stop criticism and blame.
  • Calm emotions..
  • Talk so others will listen. 
  • Create safety in your relationship
  • Listen so that your partner will feel heard and valued.
  • Communicate more effectively so that you can experience more closeness, intimacy, compassion, empathy and greater understanding of yourself and others.
  • Have the confidence and security that what you want and need you can achieve.
  • Have the understandings and skills that you need to create continued success.
  • Build a better relationship with yourself and a partner today even though you might have thought it was hopeless.



As a Relationship Coach I want to offer the accepted definition of coaching from ICF (International Coaching Federations) -



"Coaching is a partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential." 




    verified by Psychology Today  





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Before coaching, I had a lot of fear and anxiety that kept me from doing things I knew I should do to get ahead. I was tired of being alone and not having a relationship. When I did go out with a guy, within the first few dates anxieties and behaviors that I thought I was past resurfaced. I felt like I couldn't control myself or my emotions. I felt terribly insecure and desperate. I thought I needed to settle for whoever would be with me even though they were not my ideal mate. 
Finally, I said to myself “enough is enough”.  I realized that I was never going to figure this out on my own.  I also recognized that this wasn't something that was a medical necessity for which my health insurance would pay.  A relationship coach was just what I needed.
I loved that no matter how crazy I sounded to myself my coach seemed always to understand what I was saying and feeling and made sense of it. 
Since coaching, I have gained confidence in myself and am now married to a wonderful man. This increased confidence and communication skills have also showed up in my professional life, and I have increased my income 50%.
Thank you, Dr. Marian, for all the help you have given me. 

Lee S.